Its no secret that many of us men out there are drawn to women that we know we should stay as far away as possible from. But like a moth to a flame, we often cannot seem to resist the allure that a bad girl provides, no matter how hard we try.
So why exactly do we tend to chase after these types of women? Its not that we are all a bunch of self-loathing losers who want to experience pain and punishment. It’s more the qualities that come along with dating these types of women. In this article we will take a look at a few qualities that make us attracted to women that we should be avoiding relationships with at all costs.
1. The sexual allure of a bad girl.
At our core, we are still very primal by nature. No matter how much we try to think with the head up top, the other head often takes over. When we see a bad girl we see more than just an attractive woman. We see the promise of sexuality and adventure behind closed doors, which is often enough to suck us in to a situation that we know is not good for us.
2. The promise of excitement.
Let’s face it. As men, often times the biggest fear we face is a life of monotony. This is because we are hunters by nature.
Since bad girls come across as exciting and full of new adventures, we are naturally drawn to this. We know going in that we may be dealing with drama and craziness throughout the relationship, but the appeal of the excitement that comes along with this is just too much to pass up.
3. The free spirit of a bad girl.
These types of women don’t care what others think of them. They do what they want, when they want, and how they want, without ever making excuses for their behavior. This free spirit attitude is not only attractive, but often inspiring as well to those who wish to adapt a more similar attitude within their own lifestyle.
4. The endless chase that they provide.
Regardless of how childish this may seem, we all like the thrill of a chase on some level. As the old saying goes, we always tend to want what we can’t have. Good girls are easy to lock up. With bad girls, we know that deep down; they could be gone at the drop of a dime.
5. The God complex.
Many men who pursue bad girls want to be the guy that comes in on a white horse in shining armor to save the day. The problem is, the opposite usually happens. These men tend to get their hearts broken!
When all is said and done, we tend to develop attraction towards bad girls for a lot of understandable reasons. The problem is, the positives will not outweigh the negatives in the long run. Be careful with these types of women and focus on the good girls out there!
Joshua Pompey is a dating coach, specializing in online dating.
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