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What Attracts a Woman – 5 Qualities

Let’s face it, when it comes to what attracts a woman to a man, there is no one size fits all.  Each woman varies slightly in what they loMatchmaker New York Dating Coach New York- What Attracts Womenok for, find attractive, and want to eventually settle down with.

But that doesn’t mean there aren’t certain qualities that just about all single women are attracted to in men.  And these are the ones that men can work hard to perfect if we wish to find the success we are looking for when it comes to dating.

Having talked to countless single women over the years, I have come to realize that the following five qualities are attributes that just about every single woman wants in a man.  The question is, how many of them do you excel in?

5 Qualities that Attracts a Woman:


1.  The Ability to Make Decisions.

No woman wants a man who acts like a dictator.  I’m not suggesting that you constantly demand where to go and what to do with her free time.  But I am suggesting that you take charge of situations a good portion of the time.
Don’t always ask where she wants to eat, what she wants to do, and what time she wants to meet.  Take the reigns into your own hands sometimes.

Guys who can’t make decisions are perceived as pushovers.  Women are attracted to men with backbones.  Show that you have one.

2.  The Ability to Make Her Laugh.

For most people, the biggest fear of entering into a long-term relationship is that it will eventually grow monotonous and boring.

Showing the ability to make a woman laugh is like making a silent promise that life with you will never get boring.  There will always be laughter and good times to come, no matter how much looks fade, or how much time goes by.

In addition, all woman want to have a good time, and who doesn’t like to laugh?

3.  The Ability to Provide.

This can come in many forms.  Whether it is demonstrating the ability to be a good father, having security or ambition in the workplace, or just showing a general ability to take care of a woman, this is a quality that just about all women instinctually look for, and a great quality to have.

4.  The Ability to Surprise.

Dating can become tedious and repetitive.  Countless men take women on the same boring dates, to the same boring bars, and to the same boring restaurants.  Women want to feel emotions with you that they haven’t already experienced with the last ten men they have dated.

So get creative.  Put together a few original dates.  Show that you are in tune to her interests.  Planning a few surprises can go a long way towards creating a strong emotional interest.

5.  The Ability to Listen.

It’s no secret that women speak thousands of more words per day then men do.  But that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t be listening and attentive.

Paying attention to the little details can go a long way, and can even be used to your advantage.  Take these little details about her favorite foods, hobbies, music, etc., and use them as an inspiration for making cute little gifts, or planning amazing dates that she will never forget.  Make a woman feel heard and understand will pay dividends in the long run.

About the Author:

Joshua Pompey - What Attracts WomenJoshua Pompey provided online dating advice to people all over the world. For more online dating tips and advice from Joshua, click here now.

by Suzanne Oshima

Suzanne K. Oshima is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach & Founder at Dream Bachelor & Bachelorette. She is also the Founder of Single in Stilettos, which gives women the best dating advice & tips to help them meet, attract & keep the one. Suzanne has been seen on Bravo TV, The Today Show, Good Afternoon America, Inside Edition, BBC Radio, Glamour Magazine, Men’s Health and much more!

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