Millionaire Matchmaker – Women Like the Chase!
When it comes to dating and chasing, a lot of people think that it’s only men who like the chase…not true, says Millionaire Matchmaker, Patti Stanger. The Millionaire Matchmaker was on Dr. Drew’s show, saying that women like the chase in dating, just as much as men do.
It’s true…both men and women like the chase, to a certain point….let me explain.
It’s a fact, you appreciate something more, if you worked hard to get it. If something comes to easily to you, or without any effort, then you may put less value on it.
Here’s an example, what if you took a helicopter to the top of massive mountain, like Mount McKinley (I don’t even know if you can take a helicopter to the top of Mount McKinley, but for the sake of this story, let’s pretend you can!)? While it might be a great experience, wouldn’t you appreciate it more, if you had to climb the mountain over several days, against all odds?
When it comes to dating it’s no different. If a man or woman is too easy to get, you may lose interest once you ‘get’ him or her.
While both men and women like the chase…it’s to a certain point. No one likes it when someone is so elusive, that all it feels like is they’re playing mind games with you, and you’re constantly frustrated with trying to date them. At a certain point, the chase becomes tiring and a waste of your time.