There is no shortage of people walking this earth that declare New York to be the greatest city in the world. Whether it’s the diversity, the culture, the food, or the amazing nightlife, the city that never sleeps is fairly easy to fall in love with. But finding someone to fall in love with you? This may be the one category that NYC often falls short on.
With so many options at every turn, combined so many career-focused individuals, finding love in NYC isn’t exactly easy. But it’s not impossible once receiving the right tips and assistance from a Matchmaker’s point of view. With the right amount of help, dedication, and knowledge, anyone can find love. In this article, I am going to discuss five matchmaking tips that NYC Matchmakers want you know.
5 Best Matchmaking Tips from NYC Matchmakers:
1. Weigh your priorities.
Life in NYC can get pretty busy. But that doesn’t mean dating needs to take a back seat. “If a guy asks you out and you are busy for the next five days, prioritize what is really important and see if you could cancel something. It won’t be the end of the world if you skip your kickboxing class or girl’s night out for a chance at love”, says NYC Matchmaker, Suzanne Oshima. Repeat after me: prioritize!
2. A career can only create so much happiness.
NYC singles tend to get so focused on their careers that they put off everything else in their life, including finding love. That’s a huge mistake, according to Suzanne Oshima, Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Nobody wants to date someone who is working eighty hours a week. At the end of the day, what’s the point of having all that money if you won’t be free to enjoy it until your fifty? Or perhaps even worse, waking up one day and having no significant other or family to share it with!
3. Don’t try to plan out your life.
Countless singles make the same ridiculous statements. “I’ll get married when I’m thirty five.” “I’ll stop focusing on my career as much and have children when I’m…” Sorry, but life doesn’t work this way. Trying to plan out when you will settle down will result in one of two things happening. You will either wind up settling for someone less than you deserve, or miss out on love completely. Don’t put off finding love. Actively search now. And if you really don’t have time, then it’s time to find a Matchmaker to work for you and help you find love.
4. Listen to the experts.
I’m not referring to “self-proclaimed experts.” I am referring to experts, as in Matchmakers with a resume and established credentials. Recognized experts are experts for a reason. They have track records of success in finding love and provide insights that you are not always able to recognize on your own. Don’t keep making the same mistakes over and over and be proactive with your decisions.
5. Get creative with your dates.
You live in NYC. A land that is full of opportunity and unique events. Going on the same cliché drink dates with every person you meet is tedious and uninspired. Take advantage of all the unique things the city has to offer. Visit sites such as Timeout.Com to find unique events occurring in the area that not only won’t break the wallet, but many of which are free. A date will be much more impressed by something that involves a lot of thought, than a date in which you break open the wallet, but didn’t put any thought into.
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