Are you a single career woman who moved to NYC to not only make it in your career, but to also meet and marry the right man? Well, if you’ve lived here for awhile now, you’ve probably started to realize that making it in your career is much easier than finding the right man.
You probably thought being in the biggest, best city in the U.S., that you could have it all…career and love! But the truth of the matter is, while you can have it all…it’s a big challenge to meet the right man in NYC.
Why, you ask?
Because here’s some of the biggest challenges single women in NYC face when it comes to dating:
The ratio of single men to single women in NYC is off balance – women 53% to men 47%
It’s true, there are more single women in NYC, than there are single men. So, you don’t have to be a statistician to realize the odds are not in your favor, when it comes to meeting the Mr. Right.
You work long hours every week, limiting your free time to meet someone
Let’s face it, NYC is the most expensive cities to live in (in the U.S.), so of course you have to spend long hours at your job to pay the bills. Now, while this is great for your career, it can take a big toll on your love life.
You find that men rarely approach you when you’re out
When you finally do find free time to go out with your girlfriends to meet men, you end up coming home disappointed because men rarely approach you.
Single men in NYC have dating A.D.D.
NYC has some of the most beautiful women in the country. And for a single man, it’s like being a kid in a candy store….a ‘candy store’ where he has his pick of any single woman he wants.
A man can have an amazing date with the most beautiful woman, but then the next night he’s out, he gets distracted by 5 other beautiful women.
Men are like Houdini and pull the disappearing act, after a few dates
When you finally do go out with a great man on a few dates, right when you think it might be going somewhere, the dreaded happens….he disappears.
With all of these challenges, it can leave a single woman in NYC feeling frustrated with dating and meeting the right man…right?!
Well, that’s why single women in NYC need a Matchmaker!
Why, you ask?
Because here’s some of the advantages of working with a Matchmaker in NYC:
Most Matchmakers in NYC work with male clients
The majority of Matchmakers in NYC, only take on male clients. What does that mean for you? It usually means that you can join as many matchmaking services for free (some charge a nominal fee, but it’s not that expensive), thereby increasing your chances of meeting the right man. So, seek out as many Matchmakers in NYC and join all their services.
The men who hire a Matchmaker are serious about meeting the right woman
Matchmakers in NYC charge high fees for their services, so if a man is willing to pay the high fee, that means he’s invested (literally!) in finding and meeting the right woman. He doesn’t want to waste time dating just any woman, he wants to meet a woman who meets what he’s looking for.
The men who hire a Matchmaker are usually ready to settle down and start a family
Men who are hire a Matchmaker are usually done with dating multiple women. Their main reason for hiring a Matchmaker is because they’re really ready to settle down and start a family with the right woman.
The men who hire a Matchmaker are successful and accomplished
When a Matchmaker sets you up with one of her clients, you can be rest assured that the man is successful and accomplished because most Matchmakers in NYC are selective about who they work with as clients.
So, if you’re tired of dating in NYC and not meeting the right man, then it’s time to start looking into joining a matchmaking service. Stop wasting time, hoping that Mr. Right will just appear one day.