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Planning a first date can be nerve wracking for a guy, so we’re going to give you some great first date ideas where you can’t go wrong.

First Date Don’ts:

No movies on a first date, because you can’t talk and get to know her on a more intimate level.

No coffee on a first date, it’s too intense and can seem more like a job interview.  Plus caffeine just gets people wired instead of relaxing.

And most importantly, never ever ask a girl, “What do you want to do?” Women really hate it when a guy says this because they have no idea what his budget is.  Woman want a man who can be a man and plan the date!

First Date Do’s:

Listen to what her interests are and take that into consideration and turn it into the first date.  It will show you are being thoughtful about what she really likes and trust me, it will win points with her.

Pick a couple of places to go on your date if it’s going well. That’s much better than being in one place for 4 hours straight.

If you choose an activity, just make sure you’re at the same level. Don’t pick golfing if you’re a semi-pro and she’s only gone mini golfing.

And if you’re really not sure on what to choose to do on a first date, you can pick two things and give her a choice. Women love it, when you give them options.

Now, most importantly go out, and have a great first date!

by Suzanne Oshima

Suzanne K. Oshima is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach & Founder at Dream Bachelor & Bachelorette. She is also the Founder of Single in Stilettos, which gives women the best dating advice & tips to help them meet, attract & keep the one. Suzanne has been seen on Bravo TV, The Today Show, Good Afternoon America, Inside Edition, BBC Radio, Glamour Magazine, Men’s Health and much more!

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As seen on:
Bravo TVToday ShowGood Afternoon AmericaInside EditionABC 7Glamour MagazineMen's HealthBBC Radio