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Call or Text Her?

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Dating Tips for Men from the Top Dating Coaches!

Featuring: Suzanne K. Oshima
Our Matchmaker & Dating Coach



The question all men want to know is, should I call or text her?

A lot of men don’t like talking on the phone, so they’ll use texting to communicate with a woman.

Then there are other men who will use texting to avoid potential rejection.

What I always tell my clients is to find a happy medium of texts, calls and emails because a woman will connect to you more, if you use all three.

If you really don’t like to talk on the phone, there’s an easy solution for that. Just call her about 10 minutes before you have to go into a “meeting”, and just tell her that up front, so the expectation is set. Then after a quick conversation, you can jump off the call. You’ll win points for calling her and you won’t have to stay on the phone for hours!

So, when is the right time to text?

When you want to flirt with her during the work day. Women love it when the guy they’re dating sends them a flirty text. It lets her know that he’s thinking of her.

But constant texting can be a turn off to a woman, it can come across as desperate.  So, just find the right balance between texting and calling and you can win her over!

by Suzanne Oshima

Suzanne K. Oshima is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach & Founder at Dream Bachelor & Bachelorette. She is also the Founder of Single in Stilettos, which gives women the best dating advice & tips to help them meet, attract & keep the one. Suzanne has been seen on Bravo TV, The Today Show, Good Afternoon America, Inside Edition, BBC Radio, Glamour Magazine, Men’s Health and much more!

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