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What Do Men Find Attractive About Women?

Dating Advice for WomenWhat do men find attractive about women when it comes to dating & love? What women may think is attractive, isn’t necessarily what men find attractive.

Are you dying to know the top 5 things men first notice about women?  No, it’s not your amazing personality. Men are very visual creatures by nature. If you can’t catch a man’s eye visually, unfortunately he will not approach you to find out if you have a great personality.

What Attracts a Man:

According to Steve Harvey, Talk Show Host and Best Selling Author of the book, “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man”, this is what men find attractive about women:

1) Hair

It’s a fact that men prefer long hair. While you may not have been blessed with long beautiful tresses, nowadays you can get extensions so you can have long flowing locks like Jennifer Lopez.

2) Lips

Pop that color and gloss on your lips to accentuate them. When you’re talking to him, his focus will be on your lips and eyes, so make them look sensual and sexy enough where he can imagine and want to kiss you. Men are attracted to your mouth…for various reasons.

3) Nails

Make sure your nails are always manicured. There’s nothing more of a turnoff to a guy when he sees that your nails look like claws that haven’t been filed in weeks or the nail polish is chipped away where you look like you’ve been doing manual labor like a construction worker.

4) Legs

NEVER go on a date in flats…wear stilettos! Everything looks so much better in heels. When you wear heels, it shows off the shapeliness of your legs, your posture is better and you’re more confident. And even if you’re married, you should still wear heels out on date night with your husband…according to Steve Harvey, he’ll appreciate it.

5) Butt

Yes, really! Don’t worry about your butt being too big, what you should worry about is whether or not it’s physically fit. Squats and lunges will help strengthen your maximus gluteus muscles, so he can bounce a dime off it!

Now don’t worry, these are only the things men look at initially. After men decide they are attracted to women visually, then the other factors that come into play are your personality, attitude, core values and chemistry. So, men are not completely superficial after all!

If you liked this article on what do men find attractive about women, then we also suggest you check out Single in Stilettos Video Series where real men & professional dating experts will tell you what men really think and want from women!

by Suzanne Oshima

Suzanne K. Oshima is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach & Founder at Dream Bachelor & Bachelorette. She is also the Founder of Single in Stilettos, which gives women the best dating advice & tips to help them meet, attract & keep the one. Suzanne has been seen on Bravo TV, The Today Show, Good Afternoon America, Inside Edition, BBC Radio, Glamour Magazine, Men’s Health and much more!

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As seen on:
Bravo TVToday ShowGood Afternoon AmericaInside EditionABC 7Glamour MagazineMen's HealthBBC Radio